Last Valentines Day I shared this pic of me and my best friend Zoe on FB. Zoe’s beautiful mum took the pic. We were out celebrating her 32nd Birthday and when we saw it we ‘cracked up’! “OMG Look how In LOVE we are?!!!” I must admit there was a big moment of hesitation before [...]
As a Tantra teacher and somatic sexologist I often notice with couples I’m blessed and honoured to guide—particularly those who’ve been in a long-term relationship—romance and passion has waned. However, it does not have to be that way at all. Every day can have a Valentine’s Day flavor once you ignite the flame of passion [...]
Here we go again, on the Valentine’s Day merry-go-round. Do we celebrate or not? I surveyed my friends and, surprisingly, the general consensus from both genders was that we shouldn’t need a day to show our love for someone. I couldn’t agree more- I’ve always been of the opinion that every day is the perfect [...]
Have you noticed the new health phenomena that has been taking the women’s empowerment, wellbeing and sexuality arena by storm recently? It’s featuring in magazines, late night TV shows, even a star or 2 have been talking about it. The tool is so small you can hold it in the palm of your hand, and [...]
Recently we put out a post on various platforms and performed a poll to get results on this topic. I’m not going to bore you with some mumbo jumbo bullshit, instead I’m going to get straight to the nuts and bolts of this topic (pun intended) and clear up the answers that came in from [...]
We all know that men and women are very different, and there is no exception to this in the bedroom. Men cannot possibly be expected to mind-read our feminine needs and desires in every moment, because quite often, we don’t even know what we want ourselves and when we do, it changes the next moment… [...]
Shame is not natural. Patriarchal tribes created shame around 1250BC, in order to control societies -and in particular women- through intimidation and fear. Sexual energy is life force energy. It is creative energy. It’s how we birth babies and projects. Shaming especially women for their sexual expression and making it into a sin, means that [...]
Mr. Flip Flop Diaries The how many positions can we possible try in one sex session Mr. Breather The man that constantly keeps pulling it out so he doesn’t cum too quick Mr. Zzzzz Oh…that’s it. Was I supposed to be remotely satisfied at all? Mr. Speedy Gonzalas Ummmm I think you just broke the [...]
We are all subject to visual, physical attraction. We see someone who looks hot, buffed, gorgeous, handsome and we are drawn to them, we are curious, and we want to know more about them. That’s why advertising agencies use physically attractive models to sell products. We respond to beauty, symmetry, health, vitality and we lust [...]
Fact Versus Fiction: Female Masturbation While we’re certain you’ve been celebrating either way, it might be news to you that May is National Masturbation Month. So in honor of the month of May, we’re here to shine a light on some commonly-held misconceptions of ladies’ self-fulfillment – pay attention, gentlemen. 90% of women masturbate. [...]