As a Tantra teacher and somatic sexologist I often notice with couples I’m blessed and honoured to guide—particularly those who’ve been in a long-term relationship—romance and passion has waned. However, it does not have to be that way at all. Every day can have a Valentine’s Day flavor once you ignite the flame of passion [...]
Let’s face it, for those of us who are The Last Single Gals/Guys Standing again this year, it can be a little bit challenging. As much as we tell ourselves it doesn’t matter; we are powerful and highly independent individuals, we don’t need someone to make us happy, we are so used to having the [...]
Q: Met a guy online, then in person, now he's ghosting me I met a guy online, through Facebook. Let's call him John. It's actually quite funny how it happened. His photo was in a sponsored ad and I commented saying he was cute, and he responded back saying I was cute too. I made [...]
Q: What to do to get him back He brought me to his best friend birthday celebration last weekend and the next day he said I am super clumsy when am drunk, touchy to almost everyone (I guess am hugging or stay too close to his friends). I did said sorry and promises not to [...]
Who can believe that Xmas decorations are out already and those advent calendars are in your face at the supermarket check-out. How on earth am I going to have that in the house and count down the 25 days of Xmas now on the 17th of October??? Where did the year go…as well all say [...]
Fight off the trolls, slay the dragon, banish the tyrannical overlord and save the princess. We’ve all done it hundreds, if not thousands of times. Think about it... for many of us these were the first kind of stories we heard. As soon as we were old enough to get imaginative we subsequently put ourselves [...]
One of people's biggest fears is being alone It's not mine I'm quite comfortable in my own space in my own 'cave time' by myself. What I've discovered is one of my biggest fears is actually being with someone again! Sharing my space, sharing my love, sharing my heart, sharing my everything. The last three [...]
No one is ever really prepared for it and it can be one of the hardest times in your life, on an emotional level, plus the finances and most importantly the kids. However, there is always a flip side to any situation. You have to want to see it though and you have to do [...]
It’s strange, but Alec and I used to talk about what would happen if the other one died. Those conversations always brought me to tears. These days my life is a fantastic concoction of gratitude, surprise and optimism. I can barely believe that my life is better now that my husband is dead. I found [...]