What if I told you a simple massage could change your life? That a practice exists that could boost your confidence, enhance your relationships and release your inner goddess, just by learning and practicing a few basic techniques. I’d like to share with you the power of Yoni massage and why you should make it [...]
Whether you’ve been in your relationship for a year or for 50 years, you’ve probably at one point or another, experienced a low libido, decreased desire or even a dry spell in the bedroom. Human arousal is a fragile thing that ebbs and flows, regardless of how much we want to have hot sex every [...]
The Group Sexuality Shame Game Last month I was approached by a lovely young man (lets call him Sparky) to go to an event called ‘The Temple of Consciousness’. It was a group sexual workshop. I can feel your sphincter tighten as I say 'Group Sex' and your shame attempting to make its way [...]
The Madonna Complex is a psychological concept coined by Freud to refer to the inability of a man to maintain sexual arousal within a committed loving relationship. The complex describes how man can be conflicted between honouring and respecting his partner, the mother or future mother of his children, and needing to freely express his [...]
As a Tantra teacher and somatic sexologist I often notice with couples I’m blessed and honoured to guide—particularly those who’ve been in a long-term relationship—romance and passion has waned. However, it does not have to be that way at all. Every day can have a Valentine’s Day flavor once you ignite the flame of passion [...]
Recently we put out a post on various platforms and performed a poll to get results on this topic. I’m not going to bore you with some mumbo jumbo bullshit, instead I’m going to get straight to the nuts and bolts of this topic (pun intended) and clear up the answers that came in from [...]
Shame is not natural. Patriarchal tribes created shame around 1250BC, in order to control societies -and in particular women- through intimidation and fear. Sexual energy is life force energy. It is creative energy. It’s how we birth babies and projects. Shaming especially women for their sexual expression and making it into a sin, means that [...]
I educate families and professionals in preventing childhood sexual abuse. When I tell people what I do, it often brings up a lot of different feelings for them. In my workshops with parents, guardians and professionals, I do touch on tragic facts such as; 1 in 5 Australian children experience some sort of childhood sexual [...]