It’s strange, but Alec and I used to talk about what would happen if the other one died. Those conversations always brought me to tears. These days my life is a fantastic concoction of gratitude, surprise and optimism. I can barely believe that my life is better now that my husband is dead. I found [...]
People make the world go round. Rather, connection with people does. I believe we are all longing, searching and dreaming for intimate connection – something that makes us feel like we are seen, heard and acknowledged exactly as we are. But the truth of it is, that people will only see you, as much as [...]
How can we date differently without going to the complete opposite, because opposites can get us caught in something equally disappointing or heartbreaking. Which part of you wants to put yourself out there? The part that is ready, or the lonely part? Follow this checklist to your resourced and confident self! Learn the specific definition [...]
Do you feel like your career is not really going anywhere and more often than not you’re counting down the minutes until you can get out of there? So many people choose to stay in unfulfilling jobs, even though they know there is something better waiting. So what is the first step to “starting over”? [...]
“One of the most pervasive, traumatic, and damaging dynamics that occurs in families in this dysfunctional, emotionally dishonest society is emotional incest. It is rampant in our society but there is still very little written or discussed about it.” Robert Burney M.A. Impacts of Emotional Incest A child in theseI first came across this topic [...]
One word that changed my entire life. I know that most people hear the word polygamy and their mind goes straight to multiple women sharing a man. It can be that way. Really it is more about women finding strength in each other. My experience with polygamy started because I met a man that was [...]
Question: Mixed signals! What should I do? I’ve been seeing a girl - Amy on and off and there are so many mixed signals, i’m not quite sure what to do. I was in a relationship when I first met her through friends. She said she wanted me so bad but I was with someone. [...]
By Ella (Pam Ella) Dependence on arousal and orgasm, either through masturbation, porn, or with a partner or several partners leads to feeling tired, frustrated and depleted. This is a situation of which I’ve healed hundreds of men, women and couples with the modern day version of Tantra or ‘NEO’ Tantra, meaning Non Ejaculatory Orgasm. [...]
Mr. Flip Flop Diaries The how many positions can we possible try in one sex session Mr. Breather The man that constantly keeps pulling it out so he doesn’t cum too quick Mr. Zzzzz Oh…that’s it. Was I supposed to be remotely satisfied at all? Mr. Speedy Gonzalas Ummmm I think you just broke the [...]