We all know that men and women are very different, and there is no exception to this in the bedroom. Men cannot possibly be expected to mind-read our feminine needs and desires in every moment, because quite often, we don’t even know what we want ourselves and when we do, it changes the next moment… [...]
Shame is not natural. Patriarchal tribes created shame around 1250BC, in order to control societies -and in particular women- through intimidation and fear. Sexual energy is life force energy. It is creative energy. It’s how we birth babies and projects. Shaming especially women for their sexual expression and making it into a sin, means that [...]
So what’s it like to be in what for the most part is an ostensibly happy marriage with two beautiful children, two cars, two dogs and a view of the ocean? We’re sold it as living the dream and I’ll be honest, I was enjoying the dream until one day, like all dreams, it ended. [...]
It’s strange, but Alec and I used to talk about what would happen if the other one died. Those conversations always brought me to tears. These days my life is a fantastic concoction of gratitude, surprise and optimism. I can barely believe that my life is better now that my husband is dead. I found [...]
How can we date differently without going to the complete opposite, because opposites can get us caught in something equally disappointing or heartbreaking. Which part of you wants to put yourself out there? The part that is ready, or the lonely part? Follow this checklist to your resourced and confident self! Learn the specific definition [...]
“One of the most pervasive, traumatic, and damaging dynamics that occurs in families in this dysfunctional, emotionally dishonest society is emotional incest. It is rampant in our society but there is still very little written or discussed about it.” Robert Burney M.A. Impacts of Emotional Incest A child in theseI first came across this topic [...]
One word that changed my entire life. I know that most people hear the word polygamy and their mind goes straight to multiple women sharing a man. It can be that way. Really it is more about women finding strength in each other. My experience with polygamy started because I met a man that was [...]
Question: Mixed signals! What should I do? I’ve been seeing a girl - Amy on and off and there are so many mixed signals, i’m not quite sure what to do. I was in a relationship when I first met her through friends. She said she wanted me so bad but I was with someone. [...]
My very first break up wasn’t expected… it felt like a rug was pulled underneath me and I got smacked to the ground out of nowhere. Thank fucking God I wasn’t married because I would’ve lost all my shit in the process while I literally and hypothetically got my ass kicked. Seriously I challenged a [...]
By Coutney Maria Halsted Did you know that your yoni (vagina) is the seat of your consciousness if you have one? Did you know that having lots of yummy, penetrative orgasms is vital for your health, happiness and wellbeing A number of women I know have told me that when they’re not in partnership, they [...]