The Group Sexuality Shame Game
Last month I was approached by a lovely young man (lets call him Sparky) to go to an event called ‘The Temple of Consciousness’. It was a group sexual workshop.
 

I can feel your sphincter tighten as I say ‘Group Sex’ and your shame attempting to make its way this way already yet deep down your curious right???!!!

 
Initially I had no idea what to expect however I will give you the quick run down.

  • 30 people
  • Men and Women
  • Touch
  • Nudity
  • Intimacy
  • Sex
  • Group Play
  • Individual Play
  • Couple Play

 
I hear you say, “Add possible voyeurism and exhibitionism!” LOL
 
Now most people read this and think this is a Swingers party, an Orgy and f*ck fest.
 
NO
 
This is Conscious Group Sexuality
 
What is the difference?
 
Swingers have no awareness. It is not a conscious community. They love sex for the sake of sex, not for the sake of spiritual connection. The consent for swingers is generally VERY poor and men assume that because you are there you have given consent. NO
An Orgy is a gathering of a number of people that involves sex and drinking
 

“Temple of Consciousness is about creating a conscious sexual culture where we liberate and re-educate people around healthy sexual sexuality.”

 
Had I ever been in an environment like this before to deliberately be intimate?

  1. Well I have been in a few tantra workshop retreats and a two day Yoni (vagina) massage workshop so I had some idea of the the vital parts that are always missed at other events such as
  2. Consent
  3. Setting Boundaries
  4. Conscious connection

 
Was this out of my comfort zone?
YES
 
My decided role with Sparky at this event (he was sooo nervous) was to hold the space for him to have this experience he desired. My focus was solely on him to the point where I forgot there were others in the room with us possibly watching (there was a moment where my ass was up in the air and anyone behind me would have had a great view of my clacker hahahaha) as we Connected, Laughed and Played.
 
I decided to do a video to explain to you what the venue set-up was like, the environment was like and what the workshop (yes we did a 90 minute workshop before playtime. Never heard of that at your swinger’s events) was like before the bliss and beauty of conscious sexuality group play happened.
 
Under this video is Sparky’s take on his experience as I believed it was important to get both the male and females views so you can decide if you would like to experience this for yourself and jump feet first out of your comfort zone.
 
It’s simply…delicious!
 

 
Sparky’s Testimonial
 
Q:      So you were nervous as hell! Why the nerves?
A:      The unknown, how will the connection between other people be received
 
Q:      What runs through your head to create the nerves?
A:      Fear on how I will find the experience.
 
Q:      What’s the fear attached to it?
A:      Scared of judgment
 
Q:      Where in your body did you feel it?
A:      Stomach, heart
 
Q:      How did it feel doing the exercises since you’ve never done them before?
A:      Very strange, felt as if I didn’t know what I was doing or was who judging me.
 
Q:      Where you thinking @WTF get me out of here” when she said dance?
A:      Yes very much so, I’m not very comfortable with dancing at the best of times…but I saw other people doing it so felt I did the same thing I wouldn’t stand out as much.
 
Q:      At what stage did you relax?
A:      Once the workshop exercises started, I got an understanding of the direction of the space and was interested in learning; I have never been in any workshop or spiritual spaces before.
 
Q:      What did it feel like watching and being watched?
A:      It’s felt amazing, I was enjoying myself and when I realized people were watching it added to the experience, I knew the people watching had a positive intention and appreciated the situation.
Watching others was also very enjoyable as I knew the pleasure and connections between people were real and not fake like porn. Also the boundaries are respected and the sexes are all equal.
 
Q:      What was different to the swinger’s scene?
A:      Yes completely different!
Swingers are mostly based on appearance and just straight sex with not connection. The guys are different it the sense of their own intentions and desires (pleasing themselves mainly)
The atmosphere at swingers is dull, hence probably most are drunk.
The temple was far beyond better than a swingers party.
The women were relaxed and free to express their own boundaries and desires without fear or judgment.
 
Q:      How did you feel when you were approached by another woman to play?
A:      Nervous as hell! I had only focused on being with you in this open environment at that stage and this unconscious desire for your approval came in to play.
 
Q:      Why did you wait till I returned from the bathroom and want me to join in?
A:      I felt I needed to check in with you to make sure you were ok with it. To be honest I still wanted to play with you due to our strong connection so made sense to bring you into the mix.
 
Q:      Would you do it again?
A:      Definitely. I won’t be returning to the Swingers Scene again. This environment was soo safe and allowed me connect to others and myself in a way I have never experienced.
 
For more information on this event please contact via
www.goddessreawakening.com/conscious-eroticism
 
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